What comes after the compliment?

Two short conversation notes on separating praise, a request for change and a personal preference.

By KYOTOEICPublished Updated 2 min read

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Praise can still mean praise

The site's humor is not a reason to distrust every positive remark. Someone can like one part and want another part changed. Rather than forcing a choice between praise and criticism, ask what should stay and what should change.

You are reviewing an event notice with a colleague. The heading is large, while the meeting-point details appear in smaller text below it. Your colleague points to those details.

見出しはこのままでいいね。集合場所の案内も、同じくらい見やすいと助かるな。

KYOTOEIC translation

The heading works as it is. It would help if the meeting-point details stood out as clearly.

Keep the heading and make the meeting point more prominent. There is no basis for concluding that the entire notice is disliked.

'Let's make it more decorative' is a different proposal. The request is about finding information, not adding decoration.

Does the heading need changing too?

Redesigning the heading as well might feel thorough, but it changes the part your colleague asked to keep. Enlarge the meeting-point details first, then check together whether they are as easy to find as the heading.

Breaking the remark down this way helps you compare replies. Which option unnecessarily changes something already approved? Which solves the specific problem?

When a gift blocks the window

Suppose someone receiving a gift says, 'A small pot would fit on my windowsill next time.' If the scene says the large pot blocks the window, this can be a request for a smaller gift next time. Without that context, it may simply be a conversation about preferences.

In person, you could ask, 'Would you prefer a smaller pot?' We write enough information into a game to support one answer, but do not want players to forget that real people can ask each other questions.

The dialogue here is invented for explanation, not quoted local speech or a rule of etiquette. Editorial policy

References

  1. Tokyo University of Foreign Studies · Sentence-final particles: background on ね in the dialogue (Japanese) — 東京外国語大学 · Accessed:
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