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Starting the meal before a late guest arrives

The speaker explicitly allows the meal to begin before their own arrival.

AI reviewed the wording, translations and supporting evidence. No independent native-speaker or expert review has been completed.

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The situation

A participant running late sends this message.

What they say

English meaning: Please start eating without me. I'll be a little late.

Read the Japanese original
先に召し上がっていてください。私は少し遅れます。

The questionWhat follows the sender's intention?

  1. It is fine to begin eating before they arrive
  2. Everyone should cancel the meal
  3. The sender will definitely be absent
  4. Postpone the meal until tomorrow
Read the explanation

Clues in the scene

Please start eating without me. I'll be a little late.

The speaker explicitly allows the meal to begin before their own arrival.

Each choice explained

It is fine to begin eating before they arrive — Best fit

The message says the person will be late and others may start. It removes the need to wait for their arrival.

Everyone should cancel the meal — Does not fit

No cancellation is requested. Asking people to start leaves the meal itself going ahead.

The sender will definitely be absent — Does not fit

Being a little late is not definite non-attendance. Delay and absence are different states.

Postpone the meal until tomorrow — Does not fit

The speaker’s arrival is delayed, not the date of the entire meal. Tomorrow is not mentioned.

Same words, another scene

The traveller also sends information showing that the venue is still two hours away. They use the same two sentences, though arriving during the scheduled meal may now be difficult.

The permission to begin is unchanged, but “a little late” does not guarantee imminent arrival. Actual travel time helps decide where and how to join later.

Shall we start eating and tell you where to join us afterwards?

Literal meaning

The speaker will arrive late and asks the others to begin eating first.

What these words cannot tell us

The arrival time, whether to save a portion and how to handle any food already ordered remain undecided.

A question to ask in real life

We will start. Would you like us to save a plate for you?

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